Showing posts with label guardian angel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label guardian angel. Show all posts

Thursday, 5 June 2025

You don’t know who else might be applying (London)

 

(This is based on the situation then.  Details of deadlines might have changed since.)


Sebastian joined the Grade 1 (beginners) class late — in November when term had already started in late September or early October.


    Applications for scholarships to Taiwan, on offer by this particular establishment, came out soon after:  one month’s language study or a whole year’s.


    Seb was keen to go for it, but worried that:


(a) he was only beginner level (why should they give him a scholarship to learn from that low level?); 


(b) there must be other people who are of higher level, and therefore more competitive, more "worthy".


    My arguments to him, in the style of Paul Thompson’s mode of advice, were:


(i) What have you got to lose?  At the most is: you get rejected, which is the same as not applying at all.


(ii) You don’t know who else might be applying for the scholarship.  Maybe all the ones you think are more eligible than you are can’t get away during that time window.


(iii) Strategically, go for the one-year scholarship, as that would cut down the number of competitors, as not everyone can get away for that long a stretch.


    A bit later, I found myself unable to resist phoning him at home, rather than wait until I saw him in class the following week:  “Are you sitting comfortably?  I have news for you.”


    Olivia:  this blog is for you.


(London)


For Dr. Paul Mulligan Thompson’s mode of advice, read:  


https://piccola-chinita.blogspot.com/2025/05/the-guardian-angels-in-ones-life-03-ex.html 


https://piccola-chinita.blogspot.com/2025/05/the-guardian-angels-in-ones-life-04.html



Tuesday, 20 May 2025

The guardian angels in one's life: 01 (The Peruvian boy who adopted me)


[This story was first published as Cuzco chico (https://piccola-chinita.blogspot.com/2011/07/cuzco-chico_15.html), but I cannot do a series on guardian angels without him leading off the collection, so here he is again, in case you haven't already read Cuzco chico.  Re-reading it myself still brings tears to my eyes, as when I first wrote the story.]


Being one who always gets in the wrong queue, trust me to go and choose to be the adventurous traveller at the wrong time in Cuzco in November 1987, and go on standby for a plane to Lima.

    There had been a spate of train robberies, even on the Pullmans where carriages could be locked up to ensure robbers couldn’t get in — yet, somehow they did.  So, everyone decided to fly.

    On top of that, I had also gone and set up a domino effect by building up onward flights practically back-to-back:  Lima to London — arriving about 8pm, stay the night, then London to Zurich on the first plane the next day.  This meant that I could not afford to miss the mid-day flight out of Lima.  I also had to fly in from Cuzco the day before and stay the night in Lima, as there were no flights from Cuzco to get me into Lima before mid-day.

    When I got to the Cuzco airport, the queues for the (only) two airlines were at least 50 deep, with two flights per airline to Lima.  Gulp.

    David the Canadian and I decided to take a queue each, and call each other over when we got to the counter.

    Airline A’s flight 1 filled up, then Airline B’s flight 1.  Double gulp.  Two down, two to go.  Then that’s it for the day.  Eek.

    I thought I’d talk to the blonde gringa in front of me to make me feel better — you know, “fellow sufferers in the same boat”kind of thing.  She turned out to be an off-duty KLM stewardess, and would therefore get preferential treatment as airline staff.  Oh dear.  I could see myself scrambling for another flight to London, and another one to Zurich.  And she had her husband with her, which meant one more seat taken.  Groan.

    I’d put my name down for Airline B’s waiting list for flight 2, and saw that I was number 129.  Fat chance of getting on.

    As I stood in Airline A’s queue, about 20 behind, telling myself I just wasn’t cut out for the last-minute standby style of travelling, my quiet panic was interrupted by a voice, in Spanish, “Señorita, is this your bag?”

    I found myself looking down at the face from which had emanated that question — it belonged to a boy of about 8.  I nodded mutely, not twigging what it was about.

    The boy spoke again, in Spanish:  “Give me your passport and air ticket.”  I handed them over.

    Picking up my soft bag, he marched past the other 20 people in the queue, and went straight up to the counter, where the clerk was checking in a gringo passenger whose luggage was already on the weighing scales. 

    The boy slapped my documents onto the counter and said to the clerk, in Spanish, “Hola, Juan.  This is my señorita friend’s passport, plane ticket, and here is her luggage.”

    Juan pushed aside the items he was in the middle of processing, dealt with my case, handed over my passport, plane ticket and boarding pass to the boy, then went back to the previous passenger (who, surprisingly, did not protest, probably because he wasn’t quite sure what was happening, as it’d all taken place so quickly).

    When the boy came back to me, I was still standing in the queue, stunned by what my eyes were witnessing.

    He said, in Spanish, handing over each document as he called them out, “Señorita, here is your passport, here is your plane ticket, here is your boarding pass.  Now follow me, quick!  The plane’s leaving soon!”

    I followed him in a daze through the crowds in the main hall.

    At the departure lounge gate, he greeted the burly guard with cheery familiarity, in Spanish, “¡Hola, Pedro.  This is my señorita friend.  She’s catching the flight to Lima that’s leaving very soon.”

    Pedro let me through with only a cursory glance at my boarding pass — any friend of the boy’s was good enough, it seemed.

    The boy pointed out the plane on the tarmac, saying, in Spanish, “That’s your plane.  Quick go!”

    Then, he solemnly shook my hand, said, “Adios, señorita,” and turned to leave.  He wasn’t even expecting to be paid!

    I recovered in time from my dazed state and pulled out all the Peruvian notes and coins I had in my trouser pockets, calling out, “Chico!” and put the lot into his little hand.

    He looked taken aback.  I closed his fingers around the money and gave him a bear hug, blinking back the grateful tears.  (Crying now as I re-read this.  I shall be forever moved by the memory of it, however many times I recall it.)

    I got on the plane very shortly before it took off for Lima.

    To this day, I have no idea why the boy singled me out.  I was standing there minding my own business — even if panicking inwardly.

    The only explanation I can think of is that I was the only one in the queue who looked local, as the rest were all gringos and gringas.  I’d been mistaken for one everywhere I went in Peru and would get — without asking for — lower quotes for things like camping equipment than those for gringos fluent in Spanish. 

    He probably adopted me as I looked like a Peruana.

    The boy was my heaven-sent guardian angel.


(Peru, Nov 1987)





Sunday, 18 May 2025

The concept of 貴人 / 贵人 guìrén in the Chinese culture


貴人 / 贵人

guìrén

“valuable person”


There is more than one translation for this term:

(i) an imperial title (royal concubine)

(ii) distinguished person

(iii) benefactor


It’s the third meaning I’m focusing on here.  

    “Benefactor" doesn't quite convey the significance of 貴人 to a Chinese person.  The dictionary definitions of "benefactor" that I've found are:

* an individual that provides money or other resources to an individual, group, or organization

* a person who gives money or other help to a person or cause


    The second definition is closer to the Chinese perspective that I have in mind here.  One Chinese definition of 人 is: 


对自己有利、帮助自己或会为自己带来好运的人

(my translation) a person who brings benefit to one / who helps one / who brings good luck to one


    In Chinese fortune telling (which includes palm reading), 貴人 features fairly frequently, especially in the context of when one’s life has taken a turn for the worse — the fortune teller might see a 貴人 on the horizon who will come along and help one out, not necessarily monetarily.

    A 貴人 can be someone who’ll only appear on the one occasion, then disappear, never to be seen again.

    Can be a total stranger, doesn't have to be someone in one’s own circles.

    My own take on it is that a closer English equivalent is a non-Christian “guardian angel”.

    One dictionary definition of “guardian angel”: a type of angel assigned to protect and guide a particular person, group or nation.

    I have had quite a number of guardian angels in my life, who turned up unexpectedly to render help totally unsolicited.  Yes, I do feel very blessed indeed.

    Some of them I’d never seen before and never saw again (like the little boy* in Cusco/Cuzco Airport, Peru, in 1987).  Some of them had been around in my life for a little while, then stepped in to help, again unsolicited, then went out of my life.

    They will be acknowledged in a collection for self publication (to come when ready after the first collection, A collection of animal stories, which is still waiting in the wings — I must get my skates on and stop tinkering…).

    I wake up every day thanking God and my guardian angels for having helped me get through another day reasonably unscathed.


* The little boy in Cusco / Cuzco Airport, Peru:

https://piccola-chinita.blogspot.com/2025/05/the-guardian-angels-in-ones-life-01.html 



Saturday, 16 July 2011

The dour peasant woman on the train (Florence-Rome, Italy)


The train from Florence to Rome was a late morning one.  


Again, like on the train from Rome to Venice, I had a window seat in a 6-seater compartment.  


By my seat, affixed in the wall of the carriage, was a ring-shape cup/can holder, the type with a hole in it for the cup/can to sit in, and which could be tilted up against the wall to let one into / out of the window seat.  It had an opened can of cola sitting in it.  


In the seat next to mine was a peasant woman, face all weather-beaten and unsmiling.


As I approached my seat, she retrieved her cola, which had a tissue paper placed over it to keep off the dust.  I pulled the holder down after I was settled in my seat, and indicated to her that she could leave her can there for the rest of the time. 


An hour later, people went off to the restaurant car and came back with food.  A painful dig of her elbow in my upper arm and a gruff grunt made me look round to find her shoving a salami roll towards my face.


It was probably because of the earlier spontaneous gesture of kindness on my part that prompted her to offer me one of the two rolls she’d taken out of her bag.  


She must’ve interpreted my not going to the restaurant car as my not being able to afford it.  


I said, “No, grazie.”  More digging and grunting.  It was easier for me to accept, I felt, or I’d be nursing bruises for the rest of the week.


Both the salami and the roll turned out to be extremely chewy, and I’m a delicate eater at all times anyway, so it took me ages to get through it. 


She’d wolfed hers down in half a second, and sat patiently waiting for me to finish mine, before reaching over to the cola can, wiping the mouth with the tissue, and offering it to me with more digging and grunting.  This time I managed to convince her with my “No, grazie,” and she then started to drink from it.  


Absolutely impeccable manners: she wiped the mouth of the can first, and she offered it to me first, although I was much younger (at 27).  I was very touched.  Manners and breeding have nothing to do with class or formal education, as I always say.


Within a few minutes, I’d fallen asleep to the gentle rocking of the train.  


I was woken up by another round of digging and grunting, and opened my eyes to find the train was stationary.  The time was 5pm.  The woman said, “Roma!  Roma!”  


I shot up because of the urgency in her voice, grabbed my bag and jumped off the train.  And not a moment too soon, for the train promptly left the station.  It’d been sitting there for a while then.  I saw on the destination plaque of the departing train: “Napoli”.  It was a Naples-bound train!  


If the woman hadn’t woken me up, guessing correctly that it was Rome I wanted, or just hazarding a guess anyway, I’d have gone all the way to Naples, which was another five hours away, and I’d then miss my plane to London.  Another guardian angel in my life.


It occurred to me later that if the peasant woman was going to be on the train for another five hours, the salami roll she’d offered me was most likely her dinner...


(Italy, 1981)



Friday, 15 July 2011

Cuzco chico (Peru)

Being one who always gets in the wrong queue, trust me to go and choose to be the adventurous traveller at the wrong time in Cuzco in November 1987, and go on standby for a plane to Lima.  

There had been a spate of train robberies, even on the Pullmans where carriages could be locked up to ensure robbers couldn’t get in — yet, somehow they did.  So, everyone decided to fly.

On top of that, I had also gone and set up a domino effect by building up onward flights practically back-to-back:  Lima to London — arriving about 8pm, stay the night, then London to Zurich on the first plane the next day.  This meant that I could not afford to miss the mid-day flight out of Lima.  I also had to fly in from Cuzco the day before and stay the night in Lima, as there were no flights from Cuzco to get me into Lima before mid-day.

When I got to the Cuzco airport, the queues for the (only) two airlines were at least 50 deep, with two flights per airline to Lima.  Gulp.  

David the Canadian and I decided to take a queue each, and call each other over when we got to the counter.  

Airline A’s flight 1 filled up, then Airline B’s flight 1.  Double gulp.  Two down, two to go.  Then that’s it for the day.  Eek. 

I thought I’d talk to the blonde gringa in front of me to make me feel better — you know, “fellow sufferers in the same boat” kind of thing.  She turned out to be an off-duty KLM stewardess, and would therefore get preferential treatment as airline staff.  Oh dear.  I could see myself scrambling for another flight to London, and another one to Zurich.  And she had her husband with her, which meant one more seat taken.  Groan.  

I’d put my name down for Airline B’s waiting list for flight 2, and saw that I was number 129.  Fat chance of getting on. 

As I stood in Airline A’s queue, about 20 behind, telling myself I just wasn’t cut out for the last-minute standby style of travelling, my quiet panic was interrupted by a voice, in Spanish, “Señorita, is this your bag?”  

I found myself looking down at the face from which had emanated that question — it belonged to a boy of about 8.  I nodded mutely, not twigging what it was about.  

The boy spoke again, in Spanish:  “Give me your passport and air ticket.”  I handed them over.  

Picking up my soft bag, he marched past the other 20 people in the queue, and went straight up to the counter, where the clerk was checking in a gringo passenger whose luggage was already on the weighing scales.  

The boy slapped my documents onto the counter and said to the clerk, in Spanish, “Hola, Juan.  This is my señorita friend’s passport, plane ticket, and here is her luggage.”  

Juan pushed aside the items he was in the middle of processing, dealt with my case, handed over my passport, plane ticket and boarding pass to the boy, then went back to the previous passenger (who, surprisingly, did not protest, probably because he wasn’t quite sure what was happening, as itd all taken place so quickly).

When the boy came back to me, I was still standing in the queue, stunned by what my eyes were witnessing.  

He said, in Spanish, handing over each document as he called them out, “Señorita, here is your passport, here is your plane ticket, here is your boarding pass.  Now follow me, quick!  The plane’s leaving soon!”  

I followed him in a daze through the crowds in the main hall. 

At the departure lounge gate, he greeted the burly guard with cheery familiarity, in Spanish, “Hola, Pedro.  This is my señorita friend.  She’s catching the flight to Lima that’s leaving very soon.”  

Pedro let me through with only a cursory glance at my boarding pass — any friend of the boy’s was good enough, it seemed.  

The boy pointed out the plane on the tarmac, saying, in Spanish, “That’s your plane.  Quick go!”  

Then, he solemnly shook my hand, said, “Adios, señorita,” and turned to leave.  He wasn’t even expecting to be paid! 

I recovered in time from my dazed state and pulled out all the Peruvian notes and coins I had in my trouser pockets, calling out, “Chico!” and put the lot into his little hand.  

He looked taken aback.  I closed his fingers around the money and gave him a bear hug, blinking back the grateful tears.  (Crying now as I re-read this.  I shall be forever moved by the memory of it, however many times I recall it.)

I got on the plane very shortly before it took off for Lima. 

To this day, I have no idea why the boy singled me out.  I was standing there minding my own business — even if panicking inwardly.  

The only explanation I can think of is that I was the only one in the queue who looked local, as the rest were all gringos and gringas.  I’d been mistaken for one everywhere I went in Peru and would get — without asking for — lower quotes for things like camping equipment than those for gringos fluent in Spanish. 

He probably adopted me as I looked like a Peruana.

The boy was my heaven-sent guardian angel.

(Peru, Nov 1987)